Seven Of Cups Reversed-Description Of The Card: Allowing Fantasies to influence how you view life – It’s time to be more realistic. Seeing others the way you want to see them instead of seeing things as they really are.
Seven Of Cups Reversed-Interpretation Of The Card: We have all done this with a partner or relationship situation. We want to be in love and see that special person as our ideal partner. It is great to fantasize and to feel that the person we are with is the one! The problem is, we are all human and we are fallible. Is it really fair to your partner to expect them to be your perfect mate? It is not and this card is asking you to be more realistic. I know it is easy to fall into this state, but you end up developing unrealistic expectations about this person. More likely than not, they will not be able to live up to your expectations. You will get hurt and they will get hurt by nursing fantasies. The expectations of your partner are of your own making and it is time to see your partner as they really are. None of us would ever grow as human beings if we were with someone who was perfect and never challenged us in any way. I know this is hard and I’m with you on it..I wish we could all find the one that fit like a glove and we could live happily ever after as well..but then we would not grow, and growing is what we are here on this earth to do. We can choose to make it the best happily ever after we can by our own actions and choices toward our partner.